Friday, December 28, 2012

It is the night of our Dear Savior's birth (well, it was)

The annual first-night-of-Encounter chicken fingers.
Someone got their little mouth on this before I took it away.
So close!
 
I'm pushing 30 Christmas Conferences/Winter Conferences/Encounters over the years, and I'm experiencing a part of the conference I've never experienced before- nap time. It's an interesting feeling knowing that there's so much work/fun going on out there in this hotel, and I'm sitting in a quiet, dark room. But I love Samuel and he loves his naps, so I can live with it. I guess it means I have time to write some thank-you's and an update for all my many blog fans.

 Patrick and I started talking months ago about how we wanted to talk about Christmas with Samuel over the next few years. I think so many kids know that Christmas is about Jesus, but the real excitement is over everything else (actually, I'm pretty guilty of that myself, if I admit it). We really want Christmas to be about Jesus in our home. I know that starts with us and where our hearts really are, but I wanted some fun ideas from people more creative than me. I talked with the children’s coordinator at our church (I am sooo thankful for Zina for many reasons!), and she gave me some great ideas/resources.

 One was this interview with Phil Vischer, the creator of Veggie Tales. He recently made a movie called “Buck Denver Asks, ‘Why Do We Call It Christmas?’” I still haven’t seen the movie, but he talked in the interview about how Christmas has gotten to where it is today and how he talks with his own kids about Christmas and Santa Claus. I love his ideas! Definitely worth listening to.

 Zina also gave me an article about a special way to do gifts with children.  3 gifts for each child in light of the gifts given to Jesus, the gold, frankincense, and myrrh. (Side benefit- I can now spell frankincense and myrrh.) Because gold was so valuable in the days Jesus was born (well, still is I suppose), the first is a gift that will be very valuable to your child- maybe something they’ve really been wanting or something a little more expensive. And wrap it all in beautiful gold paper and bows. Frankincense was burned in the Old Testament days in the temple, where God’s people went to meet with Him. So the second gift is something your child uses to meet with God- a Bible, a journal, music. And it’s wrapped all in white (I think that’s what color frankincense is? Oh, I’m learning so much. I believe it’s resin from a tree.) And myrrh was used to anoint bodies for burial. Have to get a little more creative there. The article suggested something your child could use on their body- lotions or perfume or something. And this one is wrapped in earth tones. We went a different direction on that one though. We’ve decided on a mercy gift instead- either some kind of donation or gift to someone in need.

 So here are Samuel’s 3 Christmas gifts

 

Diapers- now, those are very valuable to Samuel right now!
Fisher Price Little People nativity set
A Caregiver Kit for someone caring for the needs of people affected
by the AIDS crisis in Africa through World Vision.
 
(Caleb was teaching Sam all about the nativity)
 
 Last year we had just found out I was pregnant and we chose a New Mother/Baby Kit through World Vision in honor of our little baby. I’m excited to see over the years the things God will put on Samuel’s heart and to begin choosing mercy gifts based on what he loves and cares about.

 This really may have been my favorite Christmas ever. Patrick and I talked so much about each gift we gave that each one felt really meaningful, not like we were just buying something to cross off the list. And the Advent readings that we enjoyed together all month brought the anticipation of Christmas in my heart closer to where I want it to be- waiting for the day we would read about the little baby finally entering the world in Bethlehem!
 

 
 

Monday, December 3, 2012

He's not talking yet

I didn't think much of it at the time, but earlier this afternoon Samuel really surprised me. I've been enjoying watching him interact more with people and toys and the world around him.

(Sidenote: today at the grocery store, Samuel said "hi" to a woman walking by. She was so amazed and said, "Wow, he's talking at such a young age! What else can he say?" Umm... nothing. Sorry to disappoint you, but he's just making noise.)

But anyway, Patrick came home today while I was feeding Samuel, and as soon as he heard his daddy's voice, he turned to look for him. He continued trying to turn, and I could not get him to eat until Patrick left the house again.

At the time, I just wanted him to focus on eating, but as I was thinking about it later, I felt so thankful that Samuel knows and loves his daddy's voice. I love watching them together and seeing Patrick as a father to Samuel.

It made me think too about our hopes for Samuel. When we were naming him, we thought about the story of Samuel and Eli in the temple and how we wanted our Samuel to respond just like that Samuel when he said to the LORD, "Speak, for your servant is listening." My greatest hope for him is that, at a really early age, he'll hear and respond to the Father's voice inviting him to be His son.

I sure do love these two-